Saturday, 25 June 2011

Small incidences leave their mark

                                                               PART 1

     We recently shifted to a new residence. After adjusting to a new surrounding, after finding a maid for the housework,a few months later, one fine day our maid came up to my mother and said, "Tai, mi udya pasun 10 divas nahi yenar, hi mulgi kam karel toparyant majhya jagi" (ma'm I won't come for 10 days, till then this girl will work in my place).. the 'girl' was a 12-14 yr old.. Along with her she had brought her 7 yr old sister..

Now, everyday these two young girls would come and do the housework. Whenever I was around I used to watch them, these girls (the 14 yr old barely 6 yrs younger to me) had the determination to succeed in whatever they did. I insisted always that the younger one shouldn't work, she was way too small! Child labour is illegal!

I used to see both of them eyeing me, my clothes, my books, and I used to feel bad. The younger one especially was so sharp at grasping things and was very observant and quick. I could imagine that if she was educated she could reach heights & succeed a lot. She would get all the nice things she wanted.

 I tried telling both the girls that they must educate themselves at the basic level,just so that they could read & write.....I told them they would get better jobs, good money ( & good husbands for that matter! lol) they gave me numerous reasons why they couldn't educate themselves. They said they badly wanted to study but they couldn't afford to. Their siblings would go hungry and food was more important to them than education. Even if they studied in government schools which gave free education, wouldn't their time be wasted studying while they could work????

 I had no answers to their innumerable questions. I just felt a deep sense of compassion and a feeling of helplessness dawned over me. I wished there was something significant I could do for them than just talk to them.

The 10 day period was over and our old maid was back to work. As I bid adieu to the girls, they thanked me for whatever I had said to them. They said sharing their problems with me helped them to feel stress free and unburdened.

I was glad I could help by atleast listening to what they had to say..
I wondered whether I will meet them again, I wondered if they will get all the riches they wanted, I wondered if they will take to thieving if they didn't get the things they wanted..I just wondered...

                                                      PART 2

Its been days since that incident is over. I had almost forgotten about it. Recently when I came across a post, I remembered it again. The same feeling of doing something for the society got to me. I know, as a normal person, my capacity to help people in the society is very limited. I think that every one of us has that 'inner voice' which we generally ignore & that voice tells us to go out & help people, we all get caught up in trivial things, so we don't feel the necessity to think further on issues such as social service. I agree that our lives are filled important to-do lists, but I am sure that each one of us, whoever reads this article & whoever doesn't, has faced situations similar to mine or much  worse, where you have felt the need to go out & help those people in need. 

May be some of you have already done or are doing some social work. I have just written this post to share with you people how I feel when I see someone less fortunate than me.

I am sure you feel the same!! We all have faced such small incidents which somehow leave a mark on us!

I think there is a urgent need to create awareness in our society about hygiene & education. I have just expressed my thoughts randomly. But I would like to say to all of you, that go out & make someone's day, I am sure you'll feel better. Better than the person whom you are helping.. Go ahead friends, the world needs you!!! Even a small effort from you side will make a difference that's what I learnt..

As for the girls, I never met them again till date. I just hope they are doing well wherever they are!
So just go out there- Dream. Imagine. Be Crazy. Be You.

Au revoir!

Sunday, 5 June 2011

Government vs Ramdeo...

News channels, newspapers hoardings, protests..everything is buzzing with how baba ramdeo protested & how the government reacted.... after the ghastly incident which occured yesterday night, when baba & his followers, who were protesting in a non-violent, peaceful way, were attacked by 5 thousand policemen(or gundas???) ,who lathicharged heartlessly on baba & his followers, not sparing women or children....

Now I have certain questions in my mind...
1. When baba had obtained permission for his protest, then why on earth did the government do what they did?
2. why did they go there in the middle of the night? are they such big cowards?
I guess they knew that if they had manhandled baba & his followers in daylight, they wouldn't have been successful
3. If our government can plan such horrible events properly, if they have the capability to do that,then why on earth cant they  plan more better & fruitful things like the country's delevepment, feeding the poor & preventing farmer suicides?
4. Why couldn't they have told the baba in a peaceful manner if their only motive was to stop the satyagraha?

Many people out there do not like baba ramdeo for various reasons..
I agree that he is not the epitome of perfection...his demands of removal of the 1000 & 500 ruppee note, the black money issue & many other things are not that practical...Wiping out the dirt from our system is not going to be easy..but I think we should all admire his guts..He may be uneducated & from a rural background & his followers may consist of the same, but it is that uneducated village man from hariyana & his followers who are out there bearing the brink of the government... Its so easy for you and me to sit here & discuss what is right & wrong,but so much more difficult to be out there & face it all.....he still hasn't broken his fast..imagine the state of that man's health by now!!

Corruption has ruined & broken our country...the broken pieces should be brought together by us all...
Anna Hazare, Baba ramdeo & many others will continue their efforts..Its upto us to decide where we belong & which side we support...
The politicians have been agitated by baba's plea to bring back the black money, their weakness has been brought out in the open & so they have become agressive.....what the outcome of this all chaos will be, nobody knows, but the fact is that the voice of truth cannot be supressed for long.... Jai Hind!!

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